What’s your relational polarity style?

Can lead, direct, and take initiative

Am able to satisfy all of my partners desires

Feel held, led, and protected.

Am free to express my emotions without needing to hold back.

We co-lead and take turns guiding depending on the situation.

Check out and find it hard to be present with my partner

Be able to focus easily and be responsive to my partner

Find it easy to access my heart and deeper vulnerability

Avoid sharing what my heart really feels and focus on the other

Enjoy being the initiator.

To feel safe, supported and protected

To be praised, seen and acknowledged for all I do

To equally lead and be led

To be the decision-maker and safe harbour

To be prioritised above all else

Try to take control or “fix” it.

Name what’s alive while staying grounded.

Am the first to be able to feel my emotions

Try to keep connection at all costs

Hold space for what needs to be expressed in the moment

Conscious of polarity and trying to cultivate healthy dynamics.

Wishing for deeper connection

Feeling like I’m holding the structure or guiding the relationship.

Taking the lead and feeling resentful afterwards

Choosing my mission over my relationship

Feeling radiant, in flow and devotional.

Always being in service no matter what`s happening

A deep blend of both purpose, flow, presence and creativity.

Not letting anything get me down, and always seeing the positive.

Taking action, meeting challenges and solving problems

I can fully surrender and feel ravished.

I have full control over my partners pleasure

There’s a balance of giving and receiving.

My partner is fully satisfied.

I feel my partner fully surrendering to me.

I’m in flow, creating, feeling deeply connected to others.

I’m building, leading, and achieving.

I’m in love and aligned with my purpose.

I’m taking care of others

I`m on mission and free to do my own thing as I please.

Not feeling chosen or prioritized.

Overfocusing on work and providing

Getting lost in my partner’s needs.

Losing attraction and polarity

Not knowing how to hold an emotional process when there is a trigger

Doing, achieving, planning, producing.

Feeling, flowing, creating, connecting.

Constantly shifting between roles.

Reacting to the world around me without clear direction.

On having fun rather than creating safety and stability

To be in control and completely free to do what I want

To have my needs prioritised above all else

To feel provided for and fully chosen

To feel loved and respected for what I provide

Devotional love that honors both the masculine and feminine.

Finding a healthy compromise between my needs and my partners

Knowing how to bring more emotional depth into my relationships

Always adapting to make things work.

Being in control and not trusting.

Finding time for myself, as well as other people