This is not surface-level relationship coaching.
It is embodied, relational, and polarity-based.
We work with couples who are at a crossroads.
Couples who want to understand each other more deeply.
Couples who know there is love, but struggle to access it consistently.
This work supports you to:
- Break repetitive relational patterns
- Restore polarity and attraction
- Feel more intimacy, clarity, and aliveness
- Learn how to meet each other instead of defending or withdrawing
- Create a relationship that feels supportive rather than draining
This mentorship is held by both Amanda and Shiva.
Each partner is supported individually
and the relationship is supported as a whole.
Amanda works primarily with the woman
 Shiva works primarily with the man
We strongly believe that couples who do the work separately
get to show up more fully for themselves and thus, the relationship.
Joint 'harvest' sessions will bring the relational field together
Women are supported to:
- Soften out of over-functioning and control
- Reconnect to the feminine body
- Step out of leading the relationship from the masculine
- Feel more receptive, supported, and met
Men are supported to:
- Step more fully into grounded masculinity
- Understand and meet the feminine
- Develop relational presence and capacity
- Lead with clarity, stability, and trust
Together, this work restores polarity
so intimacy becomes connected, alive, and nourishing again.
The container
- 6 to 9 month private couples mentorship
- Three sessions per month
- Individual coaching for the woman with Amanda
- Individual coaching for the man with Shiva
- One joint relational session
- Each partner receives an individualized container
This structure allows each person to grow personally
while also supporting the relationship as its own living system.
This is for couples who want deep, consistent support to understand each other, shift patterns, and rebuild intimacy.
Relational work can also be done just with the woman or man in the relationship.
Both couples do not have to join in order for deep shifts and more truth to be brought to the relationship.
This Work Is For You If
- You feel stuck in repeating dynamics
- You want to choose each other but don’t know how to shift what’s happening
- Intimacy or polarity has diminished
- You feel disconnected, misunderstood, or frustrated
- You are willing to take responsibility for your part
This work requires honesty, commitment, and presence.
It offers clarity, depth, and real change.
Conversations that Change Everything
Relationship communication tools (for singles and couples)
An Invitation
Relationships do not heal through effort alone.
They heal through awareness, embodiment, and meeting each other differently.
If you feel ready to step out of old loops
and into a more alive, honest relationship,
you are invited to apply.
Apply for Couples Coaching